7-Jan-2021_less personal affairs battles
 (Spirit helper speaking: ) Let’s talk about your new role in your relationship, and what you are to do or not do. I know it’s troubling you. You don’t want to stop to pray about relationship battles, but it is important to get the Lord’s mind. 
Now, what do you wish to get out of it?  [Note: I list it. ]
Try only speaking when you are spoken to, and speak on the topic that he is interested in. And truly let your words be few. 
See, with Jesus you can say whatever is on your mind, and He’ll engage in a way that helps uplift you. If he doesn’t agree with you, He’ll guide you to the right path. But with mankind, they’ll only say what their mind has known, as that’s what they are responsible for. A time of quietness is called for, for it helps distract you less. The less you are mulling over things in your mind, or giving yourself cause to be hurt, the more expedient it is for winning over all. Troupes don’t have to be called in for the personal affairs, but can be out saving lives, rather. 
Just think, if you give place to the enemy in your personal encounters with each other, then more focus of God’s help from Heaven needs to be placed there to bridge the gap and fight and win victories. Sometimes that is good and needed, but other times it’s time that could be used doing other things. There are others in much graver danger. 
Perhaps instead of mulling over a battle, words spoken or lack of them that has made you sad, you could be sending that Heavenly force to another sector of the war to fight and win more souls. The less time and effort you spend on your own personal affairs, the more the overall battles can be won.
Yes, war is in serious combat, and it’s good to have you as a team member fighting for the Lord’s side with your prayers.