7-MAR-2021_will emotional pain ever stop
(Jesus speaking: ) When there is love-inflicted pain it’s because I care about you. I don’t just want to have fun with you. I want you to be long lasting. I want to go on and on with you, far, far on into the future. And to do that, the foundation needs to be sure and secure—like you do when setting the foundation for growth and training in a child’s life. 
The time comes when the restrictions, the discipline, does end, and then just upward growth can occur. But if you were to just focus on the fun sides of love with a baby and toddler and even a growing young teen, they’d just eventually go away and do their own thing. They must be trained and formatted, and then it will be a long-lasting relationship. 
So, the pain or discipline now—and that will go on for some time in to the next era [the millennium] as you all ‘reap what you sowed’—is for the foundation on our relationship. Once that is set and you are secure in your training and know how to behave, then we can go on to more exciting things. But we can’t skip this grade if we hope for a stable and long, eternal lasting future of good times together. First the training, yes and pain is the rod that keeps you desiring to do the good. 
So the fact that you and others feel it, means I want you forever. I’m tempering you, tailoring you, prepping you, and want you for the long haul.
See it’s all about love. 
It’s not because you aren’t wanted, but because I have bigger and more long-lasting dreams about you and I than you ever realised. 
The things you miss while on Earth are so small compared to the great things I have instore for those who stick with the course and saddle up and ride as fast and right as they can, according to My leading. 
So do you want pain? Yes, if it makes you fervently allow Me to build the structure and prepare you for a long and wonderful eternity. Those who want out and wish to leave the school of intense training before the time is up, won’t get what they really are after, in the end. 
Deep tears lead to deep discussions, and then I let you in on secrets to surviving the long haul. 
Okay, so in answer to your questions, yes the pain will go on, and seemingly on for quite a while yet. What pain? Pains of remorse, of regret, pains of things not working out to perfection—yet. Pains of missing being with your close loved ones who you might have failed to love right in all the best ways while on Earth. But what does the verse say, what will I then do, for those who finish their course and let Me do My daddy job on them?
REV.7:17 For the Lamb which is in the midst of the throne shall feed them, and shall lead them unto living fountains of waters: and God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes.
[In the new heaven and the new earth—after the millennium: ]
REV.21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
REV.21:6 And he said unto me, It is done. I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life freely.
[fountains of living water, instead of tears.]